Rebecca Fernandez

When the Leadership Team Is Stuck, the Chief of Staff Has Work to Do

One of the most valuable things a Chief of Staff can do is help a leadership team make decisions. That doesn’t mean making the decisions for them. It means that you make it easier for them to make good decisions. When a decision keeps appearing on the agenda, generating lots of discussion, and leaving the

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Five Steps to Facilitate a High-Stakes Decision Meeting

My favorite kind of meeting to facilitate is most people’s least favorite: When the stakes are high and people disagree, more open-ended discussion rarely helps. What does help is creating a process that makes it easier for people to hear one another, identify the real disagreement, and work toward a decision. Here are five steps

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How to Build Relationships with Your Toughest Stakeholders

One of the biggest mistakes people make with difficult stakeholders is treating every conversation like a transaction. The strongest relationships are built through connection. And connection often starts with curiosity. Here are three practices I’ve found surprisingly effective when working with skeptical, resistant, or hard-to-read stakeholders: 1. Go beyond “I’m fine. How are you?” Most

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Leading Through Hard Times: How to Support the Team

Layoffs. Reorganizations. Missed goals. Budget cuts. Leadership transitions. Most organizations eventually face seasons where people are carrying more uncertainty, disappointment, and emotional weight than usual. In these moments, leaders often ask: How do we support people through hard times while still moving the organization forward? It’s an important question. And it’s one that leaders don’t

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Dear Leaders: You Don’t Need an “AI Chief of Staff.” You Need to Know How to Use a Chief of Staff.

Lately, I’ve had several C-level leaders tell me some version of: “I built my own Chief of Staff with AI.” Usually, when I ask what they mean, the answer sounds something like: Many Leaders Were Never Taught About This Role Hey, look, I get it. Many leaders inherited a Chief of Staff. Or were told

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